HOW TO BE AN UNIQUE PARENT AND UNDERSTAND
YOUR CHILD BETTER?
Hey parents,
This article is specially written for you. We
always wonder that how to be great parents? Are we good parents?
As parents, we always expect our kids to be
talented, bright and successful. But sometimes we fail to understand their
expectations from us. Understanding kids can be difficult at times. There is a
degree to everything but not parenting. Do you know why?
Because every kid is unique, and we need
different parenting for every kid. There is no such thing as good parenting. It
can be called UNIQUE PARENTING. But the good news is there is no right way to
raise your child.
Though you want your child to listen,
respect and trust you rather than fear you, this article is intended to bring
forward some highly effective tips for your unique parenting.
1)
Understand and accept
Understanding and accepting your child
would be the most important tip that you should learn as a parent. Raising kids
is the most fulfilling jobs in the world and you want to conquer the throne in
that. I would advise you to accept all the qualities and traits your kid has.
Never compare your kid to Sharma ji's kids. Everyone is unique and so is your
kid. Accept all the flaws and encourage them to move forward with all the
potential they have. Also, try to understand their mindset and their feelings.
Understand their expectations from you and try to fulfil them.
2)
Give time and listen to your kids
Quality time is difficult to achieve when
you are trying to juggle your time between corporate life and parenthood. There
would be times when you would be frustrated and stressed or not in the mood to
talk to your kids. But it would be very important for your kid to have that
quality time with you because they will share and open with you in that time.
Try to make that time with your kid. Play games, watch cartoons or just talk.
Let your kid build trust in you. Let your kid know that they can rely on you
and can share everything with you. Try to know if they have something to share.
3)
Be your kid role model
Every family has issues and so would be
yours. But is it right for your kid to watch all that? Should they be watching
you screaming and yelling? Know when to find private space with your family to
sort all your issues. Remember, the dominating personality traits they will
learn would be from you. Analyse and improvise yourself as a parent every day.
Never forget that you are your kids' role model.
4)
Are they getting all the love?
Are you sure that you express your unconditional
love to your kids? Are you sure they trust you as parents? Does your love is
affected by their grades? Do their achievements matter more than them? Ask
yourself these questions. Don't traumatise your kid for getting good grades or
achieving something. Let them move with their own pace. You would not want your
kid to fear you, right. We know you love your kid, but its very important to
EXPRESS.
5) Observe your kid
Parenting does involve observing at every
stage. Never skip that. Observe your kid every time. Observe your kid playing,
studying and even sleeping. Become your child's Wikipedia. Look for the
consistent traits. Which activities do they enjoy the most? Are they
comfortable in meeting people? Is
adjusting to changes easy for them or do they need time to become familiar with
these things? These things are the characteristics of a child and your child
may not be an exception. You would understand your kids better if you now their
behavioural traits.
HOPE YOU ALL HAVE SOME GREAT TAKEAWAYS FROM
THIS ARTICLE. HAPPY PARENTING.
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